Finding Versus Staying In A Relationship
Yesterday a client and I talked about the difference between finding a relationship (particularly being the “pursuer”) vs. staying in a relationship, tolerating intimacy, and not “sabotaging” relationship.
The skills between finding and staying in a relationship are different. Once we “have” someone and they start to get close to our hearts we become emotionally invested + vulnerable which can bring up an entirely different level of triggers too.
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Cassandra Solano, LCSW
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